Books

There are a large number of books available on pet loss and below is a small selection many of which can be found at the Ralph Site's STORE. If you have found another book that is not listed here useful, please contact us to let us know the details so that we can add your recommendation to the list to help other pet owners.

Coping with Pet Loss (Overcoming Common Problems)  by  Robin Grey (Sheldon Press) – sympathetic yet comprehensive, Robin Grey explores a wide range of issues including the stages of grieving, the effects on children, euthanasia, remembering a pet, when to consider buying a new pet and much more. A key book in helping to understand how pet loss affects all members of the family.

Coping with Sorrow on the Loss of Your Pet  by  Moira Anderson Allen


Absent Friend: Coping with the Loss of Your Pet  by  Laura and Martyn Lee
Dog Gone  by  Howard Bronson
How to ROAR: Pet Loss Grief Recovery  by  Robin Jean Brown - also available as downloadable e-book
Grieving the Death of a Pet  by  Betty J. Carmack
Goodbye, Dear Friend: Coming to Terms with the Death of a Pet  by  Virginia Ironside
Coping with the Loss of a Pet: A Gentle Guide for All Who Love a Pet  by  Christina M. Lemieux
Pet Loss: A Thoughtful Guide for Adults and Children  by  Herbert A. Nieburg and Arlene Fischer
Surviving the Heartbreak of Choosing Death for Your Pet: Your Personal Guide for Dealing with Pet Euthanasia  by  Linda Mary Peterson
The Loss of a Pet  by  Wallace Sife
When Your Pet Dies: A Guide to Mourning, Remembering and Healing  by  Dr Alan D. Wolfelt

Farewell, My Lovely  by  Susie Cornfield - stories, poems, anecdotes and eulogies from around the globe and across the ages.
 More here

Angel Pawprints: Reflections on Loving and Losing a Canine Companion  by  Laurel E. Hunt – this book is an anthology of stories, poems and photographs about the loss of a pet.

Bill at Rainbow Bridge  by  Dan Carrison:

By the author (Dec 2011): "Pet lovers regard Rainbow Bridge as the mythical place where departed pets await their former owners, on the threshold of the afterlife, so that they can "cross the bridge" together. Bill at Rainbow Bridge is told from two perspectives: that of Bill the Bulldog, who has just arrived at Rainbow Bridge, and that of his former owner, David, who is trying to come to terms with his grief at the loss of his best friend. The miracle and hope expressed in this happy, poignant story will warm the hearts of all who have ever been blessed by the unconditional love of a pet."

 

Books for Parents:

Some of the books listed above contain specific chapters/sections providing advice on how to help children cope with pet loss. Others include:

Talking About Death: A Dialogue Between Parent and Child  by  Earl Grollman – this book is not specifically about pets.
When Children Grieve  by  John W. James
Children and Pet Loss – A Guide for Helping  by  Marty Tousley
A Child's View of Grief  by  Dr Alan D. Wolfelt

Sammy in the Sky  by  Barbara Walsh (see below)

Books specifically written for Children:

The following books are intended for children to read, either alone or with their parents.

Missing My Pet  by  Alex Lambert – written by six-year-old Alex Lambert after the death of his pet dog Star, Missing My Pet explores the whole process of losing a pet, from the initial illness through to the euthanasia and beyond. The book also opens up other issues surrounding the death of a pet such as cremation options and getting a new pet. The book comes with a supporting booklet containing advice for parents.

Sammy in the Sky  by  Barbara Walsh - this illustrated book is aimed at helping children cope with pet loss and can be read by children that are old enough; however it may also help parents to understand how best to try and support their children through pet loss, and indeed bring comfort to parents too.

Megan's Journey  by  Janet Peel - "I have written a children's book called 'Megan's Journey' which is a story to help children through the sad times when they lose a furry friend.  It is a story about my Westie Megan as she takes her journey to Rainbow Bridge."

Saying Goodbye to Lulu  by  Corinne Demas
Goodbye Mog  by  Judith Kerr
Always and Forever  by  Alan Durant 
Goodbye Mousie  by  Robie H. Harris
A Gift From Rex  by  Jim Kramer
Remembering My Pet  by  Nechama Liss-Levinson and Molly Phinney Baskette
A Special Place for Charlee: A Child's Companion Through Pet Loss  by  Debra Morehead
Jasper's Day  by  Marjorie Blain Parker and Janet Wilson
Cat Heaven  by  Cynthia Rylant
Dog Heaven  by  Cynthia Rylant
Desser the Best Ever Cat  by  Maggie Smith and Alfred A. Knopf
I'll Always Love You  by  Hans Wilhelm

Up in Heaven  by  Emma Chichester Clark - this is a lovely picture book

A couple of great books from Kidsgriefrelief.org

 

Other useful resources

Some very useful and downloadable resources from VeterinaryWisdom® professionals

Pet loss support resources from the Environmental Animal Sanctuary and Education (EASE)